Tag: self-esteem

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Why Your Bra Size Doesn’t Matter

Our culture is obsessed with numbers and labels. Every item we wear has a size, brand, and price associated with it. That Gucci purse? Those, “I’m afraid of heights” heels? That dress. The bra you’re wearing? Yep, that too. We ladies have a weakness for all those numbers. We use them to compare ourselves to…
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The Psychology of Bra Shopping: Part Deux

Bra shopping is just as much psychology as it is fitting physical attributes. In Part I, I talked about how advertising messes with us and sets us ladies up for failure. In Part II, I’m talking about how it affects fit sessions and how we can actually be successful together!   Here’s where bra shopping…
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The Psychology of Bra Shopping: How Advertising Effs Us

Bra fitting is just as much psychological as it is physical.” – April Scotece-Buchanan   Part I of II. In part I, I talk about how advertising can negatively alter our perceptions of ourselves and can set us up for failure. In part II, I talk about how I can help you get around that!…
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10 Reasons You Just Gotta Laugh at Boobs

BOOBS, its a funny word in and of itself. Breasts have more than one use. Baby-feeders (aka BOOBS) sometimes act like a separate entity on your body. In fact, BOOBS are multi-talented. Let me explain…they clearly have a sense of humor, a mind of their own, and the ability to change shape, size and look.…
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Why Does My Bra Band Roll?

Ahh, the rolling bra band. That would make a great touring band name, don’t you think?   Ladies, some of our bra bands may tend to roll up on us. I’m not talking about the band shifting. I am specifically talking about the bottom elastic portion rolling up on us. Sure we can attribute it…
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My boobs are…melting!

Ah, the good ‘ole flop! The droop! The big melt! The big migration! I’m talking about the dreaded boob sag.  Why do our boobs insist on heading farther and farther south as we age? Surprisingly the main culprits have very little to do with your bra. Here’s the part where we don’t know if we should…
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Loving the Woman in the Mirror- Part 3

Here we are at last ladies. Part 3 of 3 in the, “Loving the Woman in the Mirror” series of blog posts. In Part 1 of the series, I provided 4 ways to reset your Self-Esteem. In Part 2 I provided 4 ways to reset your stress level. For this final part, we will talk…
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Loving the Woman in the Mirror- Part 2

In part 1 of this series, I provided 4 ways to reset your Self-Esteem. In part 2 I am delving into 4 ways to reset your stress level. Good timing? I think so. The holidays are upon us and the pressure always seems to be worse this time of year. We are expected to keep…
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Loving the Woman in the Mirror- Part 1

I’m super excited because this is going to be my first series on the blog! I sat down with the intention to write a blog post about loving yourself and by the time I stopped pouring my heart out I found that I had way too much material for just a single post. I didn’t…
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Halloween feeling sexy in black lingerie with this Bettie Page Inspired Cartoon Pinup

Halloween & Feeling Sexy

Halloween and feeling sexy… Here at The Perky Lady we love the fall. The cold nights mean more snuggle time with the Perky Man. Pumpkin scented candles, pumpkin lattes, and pumpkin pie! The beautiful colors of the trees as they get ready to strip down for the winter. But what we really love about fall…
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